It's funny, because whenever I complain about some imperfect part of my body (and there are many) my husband always say "so what?" He really doesn't care. I think that women put more pressure on themselves to look a certain way then men do.
However, I will say that my husband does prefer that I have long hair and that I wear skirts and dresses. However, my ass is too big to feel comfortable in dresses right now, so he will have to settle with the long hair......of course, considering that my hair fall out now and then, sometimes he has to deal with me being bald. He doesn't complain, though.
I think in the end, men just want women to have sex with them. As long as the woman is happy enough with herself to get naked, the man is happy, too. And, some men even prefer big butts.....
My bottom isn't as wobbly anymore, thanks to all the swimming I've been doing. It's still pretty JLo-esque though..and Trina, I have stretch marks too. They fade after a while and get thinner.
My husband really, truly loves me the way that I am, big butt, saggy boobs, cellulite and all. I've always had short hair, and I was thinking about growing it out..he's always liked long hair. I mentioned it to him, and he asked me not to. Said "you won't look like YOU with long hair". That was when I knew he truly meant what he said about loving me just the way I am.