... issues and tissues with a touch of the spicy from the spirit hag ...



so ... "how was it for you ?" ... what was it like the first time you ...



1/ fell in love ?


2/ got drunk ?


3/ drove a car ?


4/ had sex ?


5/ got a job ?



everybody is welcome ... be as serious or as silly as you like ... and if you want to skip (or change) any of the questions for a personal reason, please feel free to do so (ie: you may not be sexually active, but may like to share what happened with your first kiss) and that is just as welcome (we're all romantics here, apparently ... the goal is to have fun and to get to know each other a little better ... please feel free to join in


vanessa/mig XX


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on Jul 09, 2004
wow. so life turned out well for both of you. i love happy endings. i wonder if you'd know him if you saw him now ?. were you tempted to try and see him on tv ?. i would have been hehe


Actually, I did see him...he was on a news program that was broadcast to our school system over the local PBS station....and he still looks about the same as he did when he graduated from HS....still babyfaced and cute
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ fell in love ?
It smacked me in the face..... I was thinking why am I so obsessed?... Oh shit I must love him! Thank God, I figured it out, cause now we are married!


2/ got drunk ? At UMD.... Go bulldogs!

3/ drove a car ?
My dad's Suburban In the High school parking lot, with my petrified mother at my side.

4/ had sex ?
Akward and Fumbly and confusing!

5/ got a job ?
I got a job at McDonalds when I was 15 so I could pay for a summer abroad.
on Jul 10, 2004
Actually, I did see him...he was on a news program that was broadcast to our school system over the local PBS station....and he still looks about the same as he did when he graduated from HS....still babyfaced and cute


how great that your first love is a famous guy, poetmom. i would point at the screen and tell people "he and i were involved once". (leave out the fact that you were 8 at the time hehe)

Reply By: JandersPosted: Saturday, July 10, 20041/ fell in love ?It smacked me in the face..... I was thinking why am I so obsessed?... Oh shit I must love him! Thank God, I figured it out, cause now we are married!


so, he snuck up on you, eh ? ... they like to do that ... i'm glad he turned out to be "the one"

2/ got drunk ? At UMD.... Go bulldogs!


tee hee

/ drove a car ?My dad's Suburban In the High school parking lot, with my petrified mother at my side


janders, almost all of us scared our parents with our driving attempts !!!!

4/ had sex ?Akward and Fumbly and confusing!


yep. and then it gets worse !

5/ got a job ?I got a job at McDonalds when I was 15 so I could pay for a summer abroad


it's great that you saved for a holiday. did you end up going ?


vanessa/mig XX
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ A little awkward. I thought all that stuff was mushy and was the downfall of many a good movie or story. But the chemicals that get released by your brain when it happens have quite a toxicating effect.

2/ Fun. Cheap drunk that time as the fuel was orange juice and white wine. But it's a nasty drug and as time goes on the doses needed to be stronger/greater to produce the same effect. Great idea to keep the exercise to special occasions.

3/ Frustrating. I passed the written test easily, read the books, and watched family and friends and thought "piece of cake!". Ofcourse, until your used to it, the accelerator pedal is a fickle device and it took a while to get used to how sensitive it was. But luckily my Dad was very sharp and spotted my difficulties and guided me through.

4/ Enspring. Was very keen on having a go but was never really too sure exactly how you were able to make arrangements for a person you like to have the same idea. Luckily, fate helped and on a 4 day long weekend a friend had his parents away and opened the house to one and all. Using it as a base, a couple of friends hit the clubs in town and somehow I managed to meet and have a dance with an angel. We agreed to meet up the next night (innocently ofcourse) and sealed the deal. She was a very kind person and will always be one of those who I'll never forget

5/ First real job was in a small shop in a large shopping centre. I was the only male amongst 4 females which most guys would love but it made me feel awkward. They did treat me well but their interest in my love-life seemed odd to me.

on Jul 10, 2004
how great that your first love is a famous guy, poetmom. i would point at the screen and tell people "he and i were involved once".


....I did....I told the kids I used to date him....so of course they took that information back to school with them.....
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ fell in love ? REAL love? Awesome, i was totally comfortable and didnt have to tread lightly for fear of losign her.


2/ got drunk ? Odd. I was 15 and had WAY too much to drink. Damn near drank a case by myself. Of course the night ended with me vomitting alot and "passing out" on a wonderfully cool water bed in a basement that didnt allow sunlight in...double blessing!


3/ drove a car ? Fun, SLD6 and i took our friends car while he wasnt looking and went joyriding in an empty field.


4/ had sex ? Akward and embarrassing...yep, that about sums it up.


5/ got a job ? Pretty cool, but the job sucked...it was a fireworks place and i worked crummy hours.
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ fell in love ? It's confusing and great all at once. And it's only just begun.

2/ got drunk ? I'm so fucking innocent.... I had a glass of wine a couple times, that's it... never drunk; not even tipsy.

3/ drove a car ? When I was a young teen I'd drive my old Jeep down along a field near us. So I was decently experience when I drove with my DE teacher.


4/ had sex ? It will me on my wedding night. My first kiss was at midnight on the first of this year, which was pretty sweet. There were even fireworks in the distance.


5/ got a job ? It's all good. I still have it, actually. Working with horses, cleaning horses shit, feeding them, etc. I love horses and the guy I work for is a doctor, so the pay isn't too shabby, either.

~Sarah
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ A little awkward. I thought all that stuff was mushy and was the downfall of many a good movie or story. But the chemicals that get released by your brain when it happens have quite a toxicating effect.


they do indeed. and hi darius, welcome to friday five

Fun. Cheap drunk that time as the fuel was orange juice and white wine


ewwwww, yes, i have been there. yuck. "moselle" and oj. ooohhhh noooooo lol
But luckily my Dad was very sharp and spotted my difficulties and guided me through.


congrats, darius, on having the only calm parent so far

She was a very kind person and will always be one of those who I'll never forget


that's a lovely way to remember someone, i'm glad you're able to look back on it with such warm memories

I was the only male amongst 4 females which most guys would love but it made me feel awkward. They did treat me well but their interest in my love-life seemed odd to me


i can almost imagine you being quizzed by your nosy posse of female co-workers !. maybe they needed more to do ?



I did....I told the kids I used to date him....so of course they took that information back to school with them.....


alright poetmom !. great minds think alike !. hehe



Reply By: ShitsNgiggles ... REAL love? Awesome, i was totally comfortable and didnt have to tread lightly for fear of losign her.


that's because you're both so amazing !. i could smooch the pair of you ! especially sam !

I was 15


bad stePHen, naughty !

Of course the night ended with me vomitting alot and "passing out"


nice mental image there steve, thanks

Fun, SLD6 and i took our friends car while he wasnt looking and went joyriding in an empty field


don't you two still do that ?
Akward and embarrassing...yep, that about sums it up.


yes, the general consensus seems to be that

it was a fireworks place and i worked crummy hours


fireworks are banned here. i love fireworks !. did you get to blow stuff up ? hehe



Reply By: BigDreamer415~It's confusing and great all at once. And it's only just begun.


sarah, enjoy your first love, it's a magic time

got drunk ? I'm so fucking innocent.... I had a glass of wine a couple times, that's it... never drunk; not even tipsy


drinking isn't for everyone, sarah. i rarely drink anything nowadays and i don't miss it much. it always made me act like a dick anyway hehe

When I was a young teen I'd drive my old Jeep down along a field near us. So I was decently experience when I drove with my DE teacher


you know, they don't have "driver ed" in australian schools. it never caught on, i can't understand why

It will me on my wedding night. My first kiss was at midnight on the first of this year, which was pretty sweet. There were even fireworks in the distance.


first kiss on the stroke of midnight on new years' eve with fireworks in the distance ... *sigh* .... that's so lovely, sarah. your partner must be a romantic soul. and your wedding night plan sounds like a decision made by a girl who knows herself - good for you, i'm sure it will be worth it

It's all good. I still have it, actually. Working with horses, cleaning horses shit, feeding them, etc. I love horses and the guy I work for is a doctor, so the pay isn't too shabby, either.


this would be MY dream job, but substitute "dogs" for "horses". it sounds like you've landed on your feet there, sarah


THANKYOU EVERYONE


vanessa/mig XX
on Jul 10, 2004
Fun, SLD6 and i took our friends car while he wasnt looking and went joyriding in an empty fielddon't you two still do that ?


No, now we play with our own shitty cars.
on Jul 10, 2004
1/ fell in love ? *sighs* remember it like it was yesterday.. It was the first time I saw her, and I knew instantly, she was "the one" and she was. And she still is... So you could say it felt wonderful, but yet Sort of scary, mainly because I was always the one to say, "I'm never getting married, I'm going to be with whoever I want, whenever I want, no questions asked." I was a cocky little bastard... but when I saw her, I never wanted to be with anyone else again


2/ got drunk ? heheh.. I don't remember much, except the next morning, lets just say, Shawn's head was in the toilet, most of the morning (I like to talk about myself in the third person)


3/ drove a car ? well, do you want to know the first time I legally drove a car or the first time I drove, period. well, the first time I drove was when I was 4 and I got in my dad's truck, just playing around and I started it, and my parents had to chase me down... I felt like a god..


4/ had sex ? MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM... you had to get me thinking about that..


5/ got a job ? not a good subject
on Jul 11, 2004
No, now we play with our own shitty cars.


awww, steve. how can you call grimace a shitty car ? the nerve hehe



It was the first time I saw her, and I knew instantly, she was "the one" and she was. And she still is.


alysia's daddy, you married your first love. that's soooo romantic

I don't remember much, except the next morning, lets just say, Shawn's head was in the toilet, most of the morning (I like to talk about myself in the third person)


hi shawn, i'm vanessa. what a nice way to learn your first name. i do hope i don't develop a word-association with that. (and third person is fine with me, although i'm not good at it myself)

the first time I drove was when I was 4 and I got in my dad's truck, just playing around and I started it, and my parents had to chase me down... I felt like a god


yet another ju user that had to be pursued or saved by their parents during their initial driving days, although you were about a decade younger with your motor vehicle delinquency, shawn !. our poor parents hehe

had sex ? MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM... you had to get me thinking about that..


oh. hehe. sorry. and you didn't even answer after saying that !

got a job ? not a good subject


i wholly agree .


thanks for stopping by.


vanessa/mig XX
on Jul 15, 2004
Fell in love- True love, you could say the first time I thought I fell in love it was total bullshit, it wasnt love it was massive lust, as for the first person I actually fell in love with without even havin any physical contact with is you guessed it Jessica, shes so amazing that to even try to describe it is but a lie, when you fall in love there is no word not describtion, it is uncomprehensible.

Got Drunk- How the hell am I suppost to remember... I was drunk shit!

Drove a car- It was a dune buggy stick shift and I never shifted but it sure did whine a lot, maybe I should have shifted, maybe they should have labeled the brake and clunch hey!

Had Sex- Even though I thought I did a very satifing job of it, considering it was int a bottle rocket experiment and she was quite pleased, it was a worthless, though I will say I gave her a professional tattoo 45 minutes after I was a natural breeder it seems, but some how this cant be good for society... I just have this gut feeling it cant be.

First Job- With the help of my dad I owned my own business, lawn service, the works... it was $50 USD a pop, that provided transport and petro not to mention spending money for myself.

Thomas
on Jul 15, 2004
1/ fell in love ?

hmm... last night

2/ got drunk ?

never

3/ drove a car ?

a long time ago

4/ had sex ?

not yet

5/ got a job ?

a year ago
on Jul 15, 2004
as for the first person I actually fell in love with without even havin any physical contact with is you guessed it Jessica, shes so amazing that to even try to describe it is but a lie, when you fall in love there is no word not describtion, it is uncomprehensible.


ahhh, thomas. you cannot be blamed at all for falling under jess' spell. she truly is one amazing woman.
Got Drunk- How the hell am I suppost to remember... I was drunk shit!


excellent. very honest answer. ah well, at least you had a good time. well, probably.

Drove a car- It was a dune buggy stick shift and I never shifted but it sure did whine a lot, maybe I should have shifted, maybe they should have labeled the brake and clunch hey!


nah, you shoulda stepped on all the pedals at once like i did.

I was a natural breeder it seems, but some how this cant be good for society... I just have this gut feeling it cant be.


nonsense. i think a mini thomas/jessica could potentially rule the world

With the help of my dad I owned my own business


thomas, you get the award for "best first job"



hmm... last night


last night ?. wow. you mean all of a sudden ?. ohhhh i want to know more now ashlee !

never


good for you. alcohol disagrees with me too, but it took me rather a long time to work that out, apparently

a long time ago


it's funny when you don't drive for a while. you sort of forget how or something hehe

not yet


good for you, ashlee, for knowing yourself well enough to wait until you're ready

a year ago


welcome to the "real" world, huh, ashlee ? *groan*


thanks you guys *smooch*

vanessa/mig XX
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